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Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
Hello once again, first i would like to thank yung mga tao na, nagshare ng kanilang opinion on our show (may 20, 09), and salamat sa mga nakikinig din and natuwa sa radio show format.
For our next topic :
Suppose there is this girl at his late 20's and this man at his 50's, imagine an age gap of 20 yrs, is it really advisable for people like them to get married? what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of having a big age gap. Can you give a situation where a big age gap is good and also another situation, where it is not ideal to have that type of relationship. Last but not the least, what do you think, is the most ideal age gap between lovers and married couple.
Dudes and Dudettes, spill some of your knowledge regarding our topic, Be heard, only here at Pinoy FM!
For our next topic :
Suppose there is this girl at his late 20's and this man at his 50's, imagine an age gap of 20 yrs, is it really advisable for people like them to get married? what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of having a big age gap. Can you give a situation where a big age gap is good and also another situation, where it is not ideal to have that type of relationship. Last but not the least, what do you think, is the most ideal age gap between lovers and married couple.
Dudes and Dudettes, spill some of your knowledge regarding our topic, Be heard, only here at Pinoy FM!
Re: Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
hmmm...
20 yrs age gap, i think for some it works..but for some it doesn't...it's not about the age gap it's all about the two person involve how they manage their relationship..its also up to them if they want to get married..if the two person involve love each other so much and if they're physically, mentally, emotionally and financially ready then go get married! but i prefer live in..mas makikilala mo ng husto ang pagkatao ng kinaksama mo pgmgkasama n kyo s iisang bubong...
20 yrs age gap, i think for some it works..but for some it doesn't...it's not about the age gap it's all about the two person involve how they manage their relationship..its also up to them if they want to get married..if the two person involve love each other so much and if they're physically, mentally, emotionally and financially ready then go get married! but i prefer live in..mas makikilala mo ng husto ang pagkatao ng kinaksama mo pgmgkasama n kyo s iisang bubong...
Re: Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
Dj_ZacK wrote:
Suppose there is this girl at his late 20's and this man at his 50's, imagine an age gap of 20 yrs, is it really advisable for people like them to get married? what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of having a big age gap. Can you give a situation where a big age gap is good and also another situation, where it is not ideal to have that type of relationship. Last but not the least, what do you think, is the most ideal age gap between lovers and married couple.
para sakin i think they can get married as long as they love each other and compatible sila s lahat ng bagay.tsaka db sabi nila ngaun...be practical n dw s buhay...hehehe..age doesn't matter anymore....i think girl learn to love din nman cguro in the future dun s taong ka relation nya kahit may age gap n cla... basta wag lang magka memory gap bwahahaha...patay tayo jan hehehe.....go on for the love as long na okey kau...wag nyo isipin ung cnasabi ng ibang tao n kesyo matanda na ung lalaki eh eh habol ang pera ng babae db..eh panu kung walang pera ang lalaki db hahaha......kc inggit lng cla nyan kc di nila kaya ung ganun hahaha...ung magmahal s isang gurang na waaaaaa...
May kasabihan kc..... Love is blind....Love is useless without partner...At higit s lahat ...Walang sinsanto ang pag-ibig kung ikaw ay tinamaan na ...
Pahabol pa...... Age is not the measure of real and true love.... because age is still remain age pa din hahaha
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Re: Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
neon_rq wrote:Dj_ZacK wrote:
Suppose there is this girl at his late 20's and this man at his 50's, imagine an age gap of 20 yrs, is it really advisable for people like them to get married? what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of having a big age gap. Can you give a situation where a big age gap is good and also another situation, where it is not ideal to have that type of relationship. Last but not the least, what do you think, is the most ideal age gap between lovers and married couple.
para sakin i think they can get married as long as they love each other and compatible sila s lahat ng bagay.tsaka db sabi nila ngaun...be practical n dw s buhay...hehehe..age doesn't matter anymore....i think girl learn to love din nman cguro in the future dun s taong ka relation nya kahit may age gap n cla... basta wag lang magka memory gap bwahahaha...patay tayo jan hehehe.....go on for the love as long na okey kau...wag nyo isipin ung cnasabi ng ibang tao n kesyo matanda na ung lalaki eh eh habol ang pera ng babae db..eh panu kung walang pera ang lalaki db hahaha......kc inggit lng cla nyan kc di nila kaya ung ganun hahaha...ung magmahal s isang gurang na waaaaaa...
May kasabihan kc..... Love is blind....Love is useless without partner...At higit s lahat ...Walang sinsanto ang pag-ibig kung ikaw ay tinamaan na ...
Pahabol pa...... Age is not the measure of real and true love.... because age is still remain age pa din hahaha
ako bata pa may memory gap na hahahha!!!
korek k jan neon!!!
wla s edad yan nsa taong ngmamahalan..
Re: Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
but how about :
1. if the girl is just doing it for financial security
2. or yung guy will just marry the girl para sa kanyang oldage, which is really not that far in this case, e may magaalaga, anu sa tingin nyo?
3. if magkaiba kayo lahi , love nyo isat isa now, yung girl is pinay and lets say Canadian yung guy.
4. anu tingin nyo sasabihin ng mga mahal nyo sa buhay and friends
will it still be possible without love, or if hindi nyo ganun kamahal ang isat isa
1. if the girl is just doing it for financial security
2. or yung guy will just marry the girl para sa kanyang oldage, which is really not that far in this case, e may magaalaga, anu sa tingin nyo?
3. if magkaiba kayo lahi , love nyo isat isa now, yung girl is pinay and lets say Canadian yung guy.
4. anu tingin nyo sasabihin ng mga mahal nyo sa buhay and friends
will it still be possible without love, or if hindi nyo ganun kamahal ang isat isa
Re: Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
Dj_ZacK wrote:but how about :
1. if the girl is just doing it for financial security
2. or yung guy will just marry the girl para sa kanyang oldage, which is really not that far in this case, e may magaalaga, anu sa tingin nyo?
3. if magkaiba kayo lahi , love nyo isat isa now, yung girl is pinay and lets say Canadian yung guy.
4. anu tingin nyo sasabihin ng mga mahal nyo sa buhay and friends
will it still be possible without love, or if hindi nyo ganun kamahal ang isat isa
all of the above examples really happens..
mrami n gumagawa nyan lalo n ung number 1 example...hindi mo na iisipin ang sasabihin ng ibang tao ang mahalaga ung maayos ang pamumuhay nung girl...and hopefully love develops but for some hindi nadedevelop ang love....
its all because of practicality sa hirap n ng buhay ngyon...
Re: Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
PAG NAGMAHAL KA MAY KASABIHAN NA BUKOD SA "AGE DOES'NT MATTER" MERON PANG " HAHAMAKIN ANG LAHAT MASUNOD KA LAMANG "hehehehe.....ALTHOUGH HINDI MAIWASAN MINSAN NG IBANG TAO NA ISIPIN NA KAYA MO LNG SIYA PINATULAN DAHIL SA PERA O ANUMAN....PERO KONG KONG TUTUUSIN HINDI NAMAN LAHAT GANUN ANG PANANAW SA BUHAY DI BA?MAY MGA TOTOONG NAGMAMAHAL DIN KAHIT SUPER LAYO ANG AGWAT NG EDAD....LOVE IS BLIND NGA SABI NI NEON....HAYS HIRAP MAGPALIWANAG AHHHH....BASTA PAG NAGMAHAL KA HUWAG MO ISIPIN ANG SASABIHIN NG IBANG TAO....BASTA MAGANDA ANG HANGARIN MO SA TAONG PAKAKASALAN MO 100 YEARS MAN ANG AGWAT NIYO GO AHEAD...DAHIL HINDI KAYANG IBIGAY NG IBANG TAO ANG KALIGAYAHAN NA GUSTO MO......PERIOD!
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Re: Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
first of all eto ang masasabi ko dyan: (isang malakas na) OUCH!
parang kami yun? un nga lang 10 yrs lang ang age gap namin ng asawa ko pero gurang narin namn na ciang matatawag...
Base on my experience(wow!own experience namn talaga ) at base na rin sa ilang kakilala ko mas ok magasawa ng guy na mas matanda sau,mas malawak na yung pang unawa nila,kc kadalasan ang magiging way of thinking ng couple is ganito "matanda ako kaya dapat magpasencia ako" then "bata ako dapat magtyaga ako",panget man sa pandinig yung salitang yan pero masasabi kong yan ang isa sa mga ingredients para tumagal ang relationship ng magasawa bukod syempre sa love,lalo na kung magkaiba kau ng lahi talagang mahihirapan kau mag adjust kung wala ni isa sa inyo ang gus2 magpasencia o umunawa.Sa panahon ngaun marami talagang nagaasawa 4 financial security reason and i dont see anything wrong w/that,bakit mo namn iisipin yung sasabihin ng ibang tao atleast ang mahalaga hindi ka nagugutom nakakatulong ka pa sa family mo,walang masamang maging praktikal,ang mas masama yung taong nagchi-chismis sau dahil naiingit cla sa buhay na meron ka saka in time matutunan mo rin namn mahalin ang asawa mo,ang kaylangan mo lang gawin tanggapin cia na bilang asawa mo hindi bilang isang tagatustos lang ng luho mo .Saka kung magpapakasal ka sa isang matandang lalake expect mo na in tym magiging alagain mo na cia saka bakit kahit namn 3-4 yrs. lang namn ang age gap nyo pag tanda ba ninyo di mo ba aalagaan ang partner mo? saka sa totoo lang di tama yung word na "alagain",kase asawa ka obligasyon mo yun at sinumpa mo sa altar na sa hirap at ginhawa magkasama kayo.Saka kahit namn magasawa ka ng kalahi mo or kaedad mo hindi nawawala ang problema at away,part na ng buhay ng magasawa yan kahit nga magsyota. In short age gap is not a big deal sa relation basta ang mahalaga alam mo ang gus2 mo at nararamdaman mo at higit sa lahat ready ka sa ano mangdarating sa relation nyo.
grabe!parang ang konti ng sinabi ko pwede pa ba dagdagan ang explanation ko?hahaha
parang kami yun? un nga lang 10 yrs lang ang age gap namin ng asawa ko pero gurang narin namn na ciang matatawag...
Base on my experience(wow!own experience namn talaga ) at base na rin sa ilang kakilala ko mas ok magasawa ng guy na mas matanda sau,mas malawak na yung pang unawa nila,kc kadalasan ang magiging way of thinking ng couple is ganito "matanda ako kaya dapat magpasencia ako" then "bata ako dapat magtyaga ako",panget man sa pandinig yung salitang yan pero masasabi kong yan ang isa sa mga ingredients para tumagal ang relationship ng magasawa bukod syempre sa love,lalo na kung magkaiba kau ng lahi talagang mahihirapan kau mag adjust kung wala ni isa sa inyo ang gus2 magpasencia o umunawa.Sa panahon ngaun marami talagang nagaasawa 4 financial security reason and i dont see anything wrong w/that,bakit mo namn iisipin yung sasabihin ng ibang tao atleast ang mahalaga hindi ka nagugutom nakakatulong ka pa sa family mo,walang masamang maging praktikal,ang mas masama yung taong nagchi-chismis sau dahil naiingit cla sa buhay na meron ka saka in time matutunan mo rin namn mahalin ang asawa mo,ang kaylangan mo lang gawin tanggapin cia na bilang asawa mo hindi bilang isang tagatustos lang ng luho mo .Saka kung magpapakasal ka sa isang matandang lalake expect mo na in tym magiging alagain mo na cia saka bakit kahit namn 3-4 yrs. lang namn ang age gap nyo pag tanda ba ninyo di mo ba aalagaan ang partner mo? saka sa totoo lang di tama yung word na "alagain",kase asawa ka obligasyon mo yun at sinumpa mo sa altar na sa hirap at ginhawa magkasama kayo.Saka kahit namn magasawa ka ng kalahi mo or kaedad mo hindi nawawala ang problema at away,part na ng buhay ng magasawa yan kahit nga magsyota. In short age gap is not a big deal sa relation basta ang mahalaga alam mo ang gus2 mo at nararamdaman mo at higit sa lahat ready ka sa ano mangdarating sa relation nyo.
grabe!parang ang konti ng sinabi ko pwede pa ba dagdagan ang explanation ko?hahaha
Last edited by cielo on Thu May 21, 2009 7:23 pm; edited 1 time in total
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Re: Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
sa haba naman mga opion nyo nasabi nyo na lahat para sakin kung mahal mo ang isang tao at nagmamahalan kau d nyo na maaalintana ang mga edad ang pag ibig ay isang magic pag yan dumapo sau d mo maiiwasan yan basta nanjan ang true love nyo walang makakahiwalay sa inyo kahit tumanda kaung pareho ,,, hope so na sana makatagpo ako ng mas matanda sakin...yan muna po reaction ko waaaaa... halik halik
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Re: Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
pwede ba kapampangan??/ as long as there is love...its against all odds...kahit ano pah,nagiging tama ang mali...pag nagmahal ka and had what u call "LOVE"..it has a package of advantages and dis advantages esp...with AGE GAP...advantages maybe..dahil s matured na sa lahat ng bagay ang lalake..financially stable...or maybe..nd na sya aanakan ng marami at malosyang sya.. sa lalake....companionship...at iba ang stamina pag mas bata ang girl.. ...EGO wise...
ang lufet kc ng question mo bro...kulang isang site ...basta nandun ang "TRUST AND RESPECT"...it will work for sure yan.. ..thanksss po
ang lufet kc ng question mo bro...kulang isang site ...basta nandun ang "TRUST AND RESPECT"...it will work for sure yan.. ..thanksss po
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Re: Dear Mr. Dj Topic May 21,2009 - Age gap
based on my experiences (with s din lola hahaha)..
i prefer older men....not that old nmn 3-5 yrs pwde pa khit 6 yrs pwede p din consider hehehe....
special someone ko 5 yrs older sken hehehe... mas matured kc sila magisip hehehe and feeling ko secured ako kc nga older sya..
i prefer older men....not that old nmn 3-5 yrs pwde pa khit 6 yrs pwede p din consider hehehe....
special someone ko 5 yrs older sken hehehe... mas matured kc sila magisip hehehe and feeling ko secured ako kc nga older sya..
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